K, 34, Finance, Singapore
To say Asha transformed how I understand and connect with people is an understatement. I’ve worked with therapists and pored over countless books on personal development and relationships, but nothing compares to the profound shift she has had on me. She helped me unravel unhealthy patterns in my closest relationships and taught me to see others as they truly are, while facing my own biases head-on. Before Asha, I lacked any real framework to grasp people’s motivations. Tools like MBTI felt shallow, useless for building the meaningful connections I craved. I wasn’t short on people in my life, yet something always felt off. I couldn’t connect deeply or understand why they were the way they were. I’d grown so used to the rhythms of loved ones and friends that I’d become blind to how those bonds could strengthen. Worse, I was hesitant to offer my perspectives in the face of others who were more forceful and confident. Asha’s insights cut through the clockwork that I was running on; they were nothing short of revelatory. Her extraordinary gift lies in seeing what’s hidden. A few casual remarks I made about a work issue across separate sessions prompted further questions from her. These eventually led to us unearthing perspectives I had held about upper management, which I hadn’t even fully recognised were percolating. There were all these warning signs I’d missed. Her sensitivity and precision made me realise the limitations of my own hesitations in forming judgements. And those discussions accelerated an understanding that might have taken me months or years to reach alone. Now, I’m sharper, more discerning, and quicker to spot what’s off. All skills I owe to her. It’s been hard work to undo old patterns. I’ve upended dynamics in my closest relationships, shifted how I viewed upper management (even switching roles as a result), and evolved from someone unconfrontational into a person who initiates tough conversations - something those around me still find surprising. I never imagined this when I booked a strategy call with Asha, drawn by the insights within her videos. Her intensive sessions exceeded every expectation of mine. This might sound like an exaggeration, but it's no stretch to say that Asha rivals the world’s most renowned psychologists and experts. Her rare and criminally underrated gift deserves a book or other longform content to do justice to her approach to understanding people. I’m beyond grateful she works with clients like me. I feel privileged to witness her brilliance firsthand.
I, 38, Physician, Canada
I never thought I'd work with a coach. On the outside I looked fine. No one would have guessed I struggled with anxiety or overthinking. Honestly I barely admitted it to myself. But it showed up in ways I couldn't ignore. Getting to a leadership role wasn't easy with the nonstop pressure, always proving myself. There was someone at work, a manager technically beneath me, who always threw me off. She'd make offhand comments or dismiss things I said and even though I outranked her, I found myself second guessing everything. It wasn't just frustrating, it felt like I was losing control. And in that kind of environment, perception matters. I've spent the last few years reading books and watching videos on improving confidence and self-esteem. Those tactics worked for a few weeks until a stressful situation occurred, and then all the doubts would come flooding back. Then I found Asha through one of her YouTube videos. From the first session, it felt different. She'd catch something small I said and reflect it back in a way that made me stop. It was like... wait, how did I never see that? The insights she provided into my life, childhood, personality, and those around me were so unbelievably eye opening that I started practicing more gratitude, even though that wasn't something she explicitly taught. It just happened naturally. It wasn't surface level confidence work. It went deeper. I don't have to try to act like a leader anymore, I just feel like one. That manager? She didn't change. I did. And the weird part was that she started treating me differently. I can't believe how Asha managed to help me see this woman as a person of many layers. It felt like I could truly see her and she could sense it even though she wasn't aware of it. One moment really hit me was when I was playing tennis with a senior exec - something that would normally flood me with anxiety. And midway through I realized I was genuinely at ease. I wasn't rehearsing or managing their perception of me. I was just present. That hasn't happened before. Even though I reached out to Asha for my issues at work, she showed me exactly how all aspects of my life are connected. The biggest shift was how I started showing up in my relationships. I could see people more clearly. I could listen in a way I hadn't before. I felt connected in a way I didn't even know I was missing. The transformation was so profound that I recommended my sibling work with Asha too, and they did. My confidence now feels real. Natural. The overthinking is quiet. It's like something in me clicked back into place. Usually, these words, self-acceptance, confidence, being seen, don't mean much, but now that I've experienced what they actually feel like, I can't believe I lived so long without it. If you're feeling that every decision comes with doubt even though you know it's right, if you're not showing up as your full self, don't wait years like I did trying tactics that only work temporarily. This is something completely different.
M, 40, Hardware Engineer, USA
Things in my life were ok, but could be better. Previously, I went to therapy, developed a meditation practice, and exercised regularly to shift from a place of sadness to a place of okay-ness. I was grateful for feeling okay, but I couldn’t help but notice how I did all these therapeutics to feel a state of normalcy that others simply had. I felt stuck, resigned to the fact that I had to work hard to feel normal, and that I would never have the energy needed to thrive. I found Asha’s YouTube videos, and they really resonated with me. Normally, I don’t contact folks off YouTube, but I was curious about her anxiety transformation program. I’m glad I booked a strategy call - she was easy to talk to and she impressed me with her knowledge of the field. I decided to book the program to see if it could specifically help with my career. I enjoy my job and the team I work with, but I felt stalled and stuck career-wise. I wondered if I was too scared to try something new and clung to the “safety” of my current position. (Which is an illusion in this era of layoffs). Well, this program helped with that and a lot more. I wasn’t expecting the insights I had using her program. Simply put, I feel a sense of radical self-acceptance I didn’t know was possible. And that is helping me turbocharge my career by propelling me towards action. The coaching calls and work between sessions were well structured. The key to success in this program is being prepared for the coaching calls by doing the assigned work. The assigned work is reasonable and easy to complete. After the program, I updated my resume and sent it out to a few places. I am speaking up more at my own job, and I see there are opportunities here to thrive and grow, which I’m actively working towards. Her program gave me tools to help me get out of my head when I feel stuck and move towards action. Thank you, Asha!
B, 45, Clinical Manager, Australia
I’ve struggled with anxiety since I was 8 years old. Went through CBT as a teenager, again in my 20s, and spent years seeing psychologists. I knew how to cope. But deep down, nothing ever really changed. I built a life that protected me from anything uncomfortable. I avoided going out, didn’t take certain opportunities, and constantly reshaped my career path to avoid interviews or authority figures. I progressed sure. But in ways that kept me safe. What finally pushed me to reach out was a situation at work that completely broke me. A senior manager made me feel like I was incompetent. I overheard him saying I couldn’t do my job and the worst part was I believed him. Even though I knew I was capable, I kept shrinking under pressure. I felt disrespected and stuck in patterns I couldn’t break. It got so bad I was ready to quit. Then I came across Asha's videos. I was skeptical at first. Coaching? 5 weeks to change something I’d lived with for 40 years? But I couldn’t stop thinking about it, so I booked a call. From week one it was different. She picked up on a small thing I said. Something I’ve laughed off for years. She traced it back to how I learned to make light of hard things as a kid. Suddenly, I understood myself in a way no psychologist had ever helped me do. That session alone made me cry (and laugh!) from the sheer relief of finally feeling seen. Over the weeks, she helped me map out my personality in a way that felt scary accurate. The parts of me I’d buried. Confidence, self-belief, extroversion. I learned they were always there but I just pushed them down because I was scared they’d come off as arrogant. My relationships at work shifted. I now speak up in meetings. I delegate. I handle senior managers without the anxiety I used to feel. Even the president of the company! People are treating me differently, and it’s because I’m showing up differently. I used to think I couldn’t be social without alcohol. That the only way I’d go out dancing was if I had a drink in hand. Now, I’m looking forward to going out. Sober and confident. I’ve tried so many things. Years of therapy, strategies, pushing myself. But nothing got to the root like this work did. Asha gave me a toolkit I’ll have for life. It wasn’t hard. It wasn’t overwhelming. It just made sense. If you’ve spent years managing anxiety, holding yourself back, or thinking “this is just how I am”. Please don’t wait.
T, 32, Product Manager, USA
I was under a lot of stress visiting my family, although I didn’t understand exactly why being in their house was so stressful. I relapsed. I wasn’t sleeping well, I wasn’t eating, and I didn’t exercise as much as I wanted to. I found myself in a constant state of fog and uncertainty. I felt wrong for feeling so lost. I had been given an amazing new position, this great opportunity, but I wasn’t doing as well of a job as I wanted to. Then one day I decided that I needed to fix this. I went on Youtube, watching videos about imposter syndrome and anxiety at work, and I happened to come across a video from Asha that was exactly what I needed to hear. I immediately thought, “I need to work with this person.” I found out that she was offering a one on one program to help professionals with anxiety. It was just the thing I needed. I had never paid for therapy before, so the price was shocking at first. But I had a strong feeling it would be completely worth it. And it was more than worth it. Anxiety was always a part of me, since I was a baby. It was so familiar that I didn’t even notice that I had it; I just assumed it was a part of my personality. I had gone through depression in the past, and the counseling available at school at the time was barely any help. So I did my own research, watched tons of videos and did cognitive behavioral therapy worksheets to get myself to a place where I could function and take care of myself at the basic level. I was under the impression for a long time that my struggle with depression was solved once I got to a point where I was functioning and not thinking as negatively all the time. But I realised that there was still a lot of work to do. This program opened my eyes to things in my life I yet hadn’t faced. I made hard decisions and did things that were out of my comfort zone. As a result, I grew. This program gave me tools that will help me continue to grow and do well in my personal life and my career. The skills and the insight that I gained working with Asha are invaluable. Now, I feel free and capable of doing what’s right for me. I’m going to continue to grow.